Tuesday, May 18, 2010

All The Things I Never Said.

I had a crazy "My Name is Earl" inspired moment tonight where I thought hey...I want to say all those things I never said! And how wonderful it would be to free of baggage and not live with regrets.

But anyway my sensibilities kicked in and I thought "eh...why delve back into the past?" Moving forward I'm just going to say what I think and feel like there is no tomorrow.

It didn't occur to me what a huge mystery I am just in normal communications with people until so many people completely misinterpreted/misunderstood me and told me about it lately! In any case it's always very interesting to hear honest feedback from people- things that from your point of view you were never ever aware of that is how you came across to the outside world etc...

3 comments:

Franko Gnedo said...

Yes how you view yourself and how the world views you are different. Honest feed back would be great to help align the two views for people important in your life.

zhen said...

yep, certainly was surprising-lol can you believe someone said I always seem so JOLLY? lol...luckily I have my blog...Less room for misinterpretation! I think the genuine non facade laughing factor/smiling factor for me is to unwind & coping mechanism when things are shite - also irony always makes me smile. that's just the kind of life I've had...

zhen said...

My life philosophy these days seem to be between laughing and crying you may as well laugh. It really is a choice.