Tuesday, September 13, 2011


So I get labelled regularly all the time (especially by MEN) that I am a...commitmentphobe.

This makes me feel indignant :-P

The official verdict from the desk of Zhen is that she IS NOT but it's going to take THE RIGHT ONE...if & however long that may or may not take...Cos seriously...you want me to tie down with THE WRONG ONE? lol no this girl doesn't make the same BIG mistakes twice! Dumb but not THAT dumb...what a relief for a learning capacity, thanks brain ;)


HappyOrganist said...

You seem committed enough to people in general. =) I wouldn't worry about it.

Monica {bohemian twilight} said...

heygroovy chic.

people are weird-ass about a person being coupled up, like it makes them feel uncomfortable that not everyone is shackled as they are. ;)

i could've done more of the waiting....

JJ Beazley said...

That makes the man who gets the nod well and truly honoured, Zhen. And I'm not being sycophantic in saying that, it accords with my general views. I hope he appreciates becoming the champion.

I see somebody from Grab followed me onto your blog. That's a hoot, ain't it?

Zz... said...

You tell em HO!

Hi Monica, I love your expression "weird-ass" I haven't heard it for a long time cos I'm the only one I know who uses it!

Love the choice of word "shackled" too...it says a lot ;)

Freedom is certainly precious...

JJ it would be a hoot if I knew what GRAB was? please explain...and now I feel even more left behind in the modern age when yours truly is teaching me about technology! I think "champion" would be the wrong word...lol, truly! I think I truly love & appreciate the utter simplicity of only being accountable for one...so often that gets labelled as "selfish" but actually I think the criticism just comes from people who are jealous they no longer have such freedoms...at the end of the day it is personal choice...and I think it is far more selfish to be accountable for others if you're going to be resentful about it and do that role poorly!

JJ Beazley said...

Grab is evidently a place in Montenegro. Check your Feedjit.