Tuesday, October 14, 2008

By all means, Dig Yourself into a Hole but Don't Just Stay There!

I'm getting frustrated with all the negative doomsday sayers and depressed people that abound.

To these people, I'm just as tired of you as you are...I don't care how you achieve it but these are fundamental to your own happiness:

1. Love and Value Yourself
2. Look after yourself and treat yourself as you would your personal angel.
3. How shitty your life is is a large part to do with how much you are willing to accept- that which you can't change so be it, but that which you have any ability to change and improve - what are you doing still sitting there?!

Don't just accept what life hands you...challenge it, test it, work around it...why so closed minded?!

Trash those limited beliefs and start helping yourself-there is only so much you can rely on others...it all starts with you willing your life to be better and by implementing tangible changes to make it happen!!! One small step at a time...

okay, rant over...that just came steaming out!

I'm so glad for the few positive happy people in my life...or else I might just go insane!

This is my new resolution to myself:

"I refuse to accept any more negative people into my life. I emphatically 100% will not associate or invest any more energy in negative types outside of a purely professional scope, unless they're gonna make a concerted effort to get outta the hole!"

Cos in the end A Happy Island is better than a Miserable Metropolis...Anyday!

What I love about Scorpios- RESILIENCE - like a Phoenix, people with Scorpion traits arise time and time again from the smoking ashes...new and reinvented...you can't keep them down...they might trip into a pothole from time to time but soon enough they'll brush themselves off, and pull themselves out quickly enough so as not to wait for the pothole to collapse under their weight into a gaping dark chasm...

And Saggitarians are cool too cos they're Positive Glass Half-full people!

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

That's a good resolution. Negative types can pull you down. But the flipside is that sometimes such people can have very deep and sensitive sides and can offer emotional support. So I wouldn't rule them out completely - but limit exposure (!)

What about Aquarians? I guess we are just 'air heads' - floating up to the stratosphere....

markymark2099 said...

I don't believe in astrology :P But you knew that already!

Zz... said...

it's bizarre but I never knew many aquarians until this year...I always been surrounded by lots of their antithesis...Leo!

anyway I'm a big fan of Aquarians probably cos they're very open minded and give me the freedom to be as quirky or unusual as I want to be (or can't help being!) LOL

I also find conversations with them good cos they are intellectual with a real draw to all that lies outside the square like me...my medium coeli is aquarius actually...

Zz... said...

you make a good point by the way...that they are deep and sensitive... just need to strike a balance...I guess the more airy fairy and free I have become, the more limiting I find these types.

koala brains said...

I hear ya. It is especially hard if you are empathic and take on their energy so the best thing to do is avoid.

Unknown said...

Im a sag...carefree and charismatic...and don't care a whole lot for negative people

or so it says on astrologyweekly.com

Anonymous said...

The problem with greater awareness and acceptance of depression is that every second bastard is depressed and you're supposed to empathise with them.

That's coming from a Capricorn. We're naturally morose, but that's disguised as pragmatism.