Friday, November 12, 2010

One Conflicting Cat

My Dog calls me a Conflicting Cat. I'm not sure why some people (like me) have to be this way.

We want A but also B so we end up compromising on A-B and getting neither A nor B.

Also on Monday we want A but on Tuesday we want B actually on Monday morning we may want A and by Monday noon we decide we actually want B...this results in a lot of confusion for those around us. I guess it is not unlike dealing with a certifiable Nutcase. So thank God there are a few special people in the world that can deal with these ongoing discrepancies and are patient and tolerant- me for one would probably just fling myself onto the ground into a heap of surrender and say "I give up already- you are SO DIFFICULT-you cause me too much stress-I give up there are easier fish to fry!" LOL maybe that is what made my mother stop trying to dye her hair and let it all go white...

6 comments:

Unknown said...

It's having your cake and eating it too. Which I never thought was a bad thing. Why the hell would I want cake but not be able to eat it?
Or is it the grass is always greener on the other side? I always get confused with all these metaphores.

JJ said...

Reminds me of the Buddhist story of the indecisive goat. I expect you know it. I'm having trouble understanding the relevance of your mother's hair colour. Is it me?

Franko Gnedo said...

I'm confused about the connection with your mum not dying her hair? Is it because she can't choose A or B colour?

Zz... said...

Shan maybe the latter but not the former...it's like being in that no man's land between the two cakes on platforms lol and when you reach for one you miss out on both and fall in the water...haha I visualise things, sorry.

JJ I AM an indecisive goat. It's all the libran bits...bless libra...lol

Oh the mum hair dye...lol it is too much effort to keep having to dye hair... when one gets stressed their hair turns white! She let it ALL go white...

JJ said...

Careful then, Zhen. The goat died of starvation because he couldn't decide which pile of food to eat.

You do know that ES is another Saggie, don't you? We're haunting you!

Zz... said...

ooh STARVATION you say? it never occurred to me that not compromising results in starvation...should I be SCARED? lol i realised I walk more edges than I give my scaredy cat self credit for...

Who is ES? I don't think we've been acquainted! Yeah it's been quite a Saggi year, or two...my moon is in saggi...makes sense, lol are you conned into believing in astrology yet?

I can handle saggis, if you burn me you get a deluge! the saying don't play with fire?? lol, don't play with the wrong element is more like it! Nah saggis have always been good mates of mine. I am an atypical water..."well ventilated" some say, haha